#REALMUMS

What makes a real mum? The frequently asked questions that all mothers ask. All mothers are real mums. You become a mum the day you conceive and the day you give birth to your child. Everyone is different, every mum isn't going to live the same lifestyle as you do. Just because a mum doesn't put much effort in her appearance doesn't make her less of a mum. Just because a mum wants to feed her kids organic food doesn't make her think she's better than you. Just because a mum wants to feed her kids that are considered 'unhealthy', doesn't make her a bad mum.

What really annoys me is how some mums judge each other. Just because society has created a stereotype of having a messy hairdo, vomit on your shirt and child's poo under your fingernail is considered a real mum when mums who wears make up and doesn't have a messy hairdo is considered not a real mum. I hate seeing some mums put other mums down for their personal choice, and how they raise their kids. Whatever that mum is doing, it's working for her. End of the day it's what your kids think of you, and guess what? they think your a real mum and that's all it matters. Who cares what other mum thinks of you. Not everyone is going to agree to the choices you make, there is always someone out there going to try and put you down. All you need to do is ignore the hate, move on and be the best mum you can be to your darling children(s).